As you reflect on what’s happened in your past what have you learned? Every life experience, good bad and ugly is a contrast to what we want in our life or can gives us clarity of what we want more of. If we don’t take time to assess what we want and plan to have it life will just happen by. After divorce single parent planning for the future of your family is essential!
When you read more articles within this site you’ll realize I am pro-active about giving appreciation to all that has been or will be as I believe we attract what we vibrate energetically. I believe we create our circumstances, whether consciously or sub-consciously to learn from them. When we learn how to become more conscious about how our sub-conscious mind plays a part in our reality, we gain clarity to be more deliberate in attracting our intentions, goals or resolutions to achieve success.
When we really “get it” and begin to think how, when, why, where and what we want with how, when, why, where and what we need to attract, we feel in control of what we attract. Being in control of our own situations and circumstances we have no one to blame for the results but ourselves.
AH, and then comes the shift!
Life Planning After Divorce
What goals, intentions or resolutions are you planning for future success? Are your deliberate, conscious plans supporting your wants and needs? Are you a single parent planning for a future of happiness in love, life and career?
In planning for the future I find these tips to be helpful:
- Get very precise with your plans.
- Visualize the results you want to achieve.
- Be committed and focus consistently on the progression of your plans.
- Document, journal and celebrate small achievements as they occur.
- Get support from someone you can rely upon that understands and wants you to achieve.
- Do whatever it takes.
As single parents after divorce it’s easy to put your wants and needs behind those of your children. But, unless you focus on what you want to achieve you will not feel fulfilled. Your self-confidence and success inspires and encourages your children. You can empower and support your children more as a confident parent. You need to look after yourself to be able to look after them.
- Spend time creating goals that are time sensitive, achievable and helpful for your future.
- Put your goals where you’ll see them often and they will attract your attention to focus on them throughout the day.
- Journal your progress.
- Be easy on yourself and when you fall off track, get back on track.
